SURVIVORS OF POLICE OFFICER INVOLVED DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

Clara Colon and I have decided to come together to reveal to many who have called us liars.  We are working on "OUR" next book.  This book will show how our JUSTICE SYSTEM has failed and continues to fail many Survivors of Police Officer Involved Domestic Violence.

To all our survivors be safe and be well.

With much respect,

Rosaura Torres Thomas
Author
"Abuse Hidden Behind The Badge"

https://engendered.us/episode-20-survivor-story-rosaura-torres-author-of-abuse-hidden-behind-the-badge/

REPLYING TO A LETTER I RECEIVED FROM CONGRESSMAN BOYLE

May 1, 2018

Brendan F. Boyle

13^th District, Pennsylvania

1133 Longworth House Office Building

Washington, DC 20515

Dear Honorable Congressman Brendan F. Boyle,

I received your letter from your staff on April 26, 2018, yes, I agree that many of our law enforcement officers make the ultimate sacrifice to protect our citizens.  I do have a question for you? I am a survivor of Police Officer Involved Domestic Violence.  My ex husband Keith R. Sadler was the Chief Inspector for the Philadelphia Police Department.  In 2008 he retired and became the Chief of Police in Lancaster, PA.  For years I pleaded for help and with much sadness my cries went on deaf ears.  In March of 1999 Keith caused me to have retinal detachment from the right eye, a month later my ex-husband left. 

I was warned many times no one would listen to my cries and he was right.  I ran for years afraid of my own shadow.  You see Keith knew of his power and he was right.  

Leaving Philadelphia and relocating to Lancaster, Pa before he became the chief I thought I would be safe but…I was not.  After 10 years of fear for my life I decided to write and self-publish my book “Abuse Hidden Behind The Badge.”  What truly leaves me baffle is how many in City Council knew of the abuse I sustained and ignored my pleas as Council Woman Maria Quinones so politely shared with me why my ex husband did not become Philadelphia Police Commissioner.  They knew, city council knew of the abuse.  God help me, even some staff members from Women Against Abuse also shared with me why I did not receive their help, it was informed to lower staff not too.  I can go on but…what good would it do me, I am ashamed to say that our legal system has failed me and many more. 

So, I applaud you for the amazing work you are doing for our fallen officers but…when do we start counting, when does our lives matter.

Sincerely,

Rosaura Torres Thomas

"SCAM ARTIST"

https://forwardobserver.com/2018/02/new-policy-change-in-baltimore-could-make-police-officers-financially-responsible-for-lawsuits/

I am a bit lost for words. For years Clara Colon and I and many others have been begging for many to hear the cries of so many survivors of Police Officer Involved Domestic Violence. 

Clara Colon and I have and continue support other survivors. We know the person by the name of Lynn Tyman who developed this program but without the help of Clara and myself.

"We" are the survivors of Police Officer Involved Domestic Violence, I am visually impaired, with PTSD, Clara is a survivor of Breast Cancer, with PTSD. I often wondered why were our cries for more years than any of our survivors care to admit have been ignored. 

I lower my head with shame, we trusted Lynn with our stories.  WE shared with her how we can bring accountability for the survivors with new policies.  We wanted more than anything to help other survivors but instead she profited on the abuse we suffered.  

What do we tell other survivors?  Can we trust one another?  

Many of us have never seen justice!!  We have been ridiculed for being survivors.

Thank you,

Rosaura Torres Thomas - Author

"Abuse Hidden Behind The Badge" 

"I KNEW I WAS GOING TO LOSE MY CASE"

For the last few day’s CNN and other news media have been discussing the cover up in regards to Rob Porter and how he abused his first and second wife.  The horrible truth about domestic violence or any abuse, many who are in power continue to protect the abuser instead of helping the survivor.

It will be eight years in June when I decided to release my book and I knew the risk I would be taking and how many would attack me.  During many of my interviews on radio, television, I even did a play but my voice did go on deaf ears.

 

At the time my book was released I was in a legal battle against the retired State Trooper Anthony Suber for the abuse I suffered by his hands, I confided in this horrible man!  My ex-husband Keith R. Sadler caused me my first retinal detachment.  

This horrible ex trooper caused me my second retinal detachment.

I knew with every part of my soul I was not going to win this case, you see Diane Wetendorf Advocate Against Domestic Violence, was quite honest and said “You will lose, they never go against any police.”  As I sat in the court room with so much sorrow but I remember Diane’s words and she was right.

 

When the jury did not find the trooper liable for my injuries I have lost all faith in the justice system.  My attorney Robert Vance tried to appeal my case, he texted me and said the judge had sabotage my case. 

I recall a city council woman telling me why Keith never became Police Commissioner for Philadelphia Police Department, many knew of the abuse I had suffered by his hands.

 

When the time is right I will reveal the names of those who approached me and said they knew.

To all my strong survivors, be safe all of you, we still have a difficult road ahead.

Rosaura Torres Thomas – Author

“Abuse Hidden Behind The Badge”

“I AM YOUR REMINDER OF THE ABUSE OF THE PAST”

Many survivors of Police Officer Involved Domestic Violence/Domestic Violence physical abuse heal and you can no longer see the past scars but only the survivor knows of their scars.  I now walk with a seeing eye Cain.  I never go out at night because I cannot see.  Yesterday at 6:00 PM I accompanied my daughter to Franklin Town Charter High School, so she could speak to the Board of Trustees.  There are no lights!!!  If any lights they were coming from the inside of the buildings.  I could not see anything but…I let my Cain guide me and as I walked and I prayed with each step.

I hear from my children how wonderful their father is doing now at the State Attorney’s General Office.  I pray for him (Keith R. Sadler.)  Your denial and the retired State Trooper Anthony E. Suber denial of the damage you both have caused me at times does open up my past wounds but…. I am a reminder of the abuse I suffered by your hands, I am sure watching me walk with a seeing I Cain does not make any of my children feel better or maybe they wished it would go away?  I thank our Great Spirit each day for his strength and his guidance he has given me.

So, to my children, I cannot change or erase the physical damage your father has caused me but I want you to know that I will always be a reminder of the damage he and that state trooper has caused to my vision.

Be bless always,

Rosaura Torres Thomas

Author

“Abuse Hidden Behind The Badge”

"MY VOICE WILL BE HEARD"

Just like many Republicans, I feel our PA State Attorney General does not vet his people. You will not have my vote. The next time you run for office, I will be that voice who will remind you of, the injustice that has happened to me. I will not allow you or anyone else to keep me silent. Every chance I get, I will remind those in power to do their JOB!!

Rosaura Torres Thomas

Author

"Abuse Hidden Behind The Badge"

WHY DID SO MANY IGNORE THE CRIES

This was wrong, no matter how you look at it, it was wrong. Now, I am a survivor of Police Officer Involved Domestic Violence. Many politicians here in Philadelphia, PA knew my ex was beating me which caused me retinal detachment. Fearing for my safety, I ran to another town, thinking I would be safe, well guess again. I am now visually impaired and I walk with a Cain. None of my abuser were ever held accountable for the damage they caused me....I applauded Senator Franken for holding himself accountable. I wish my ex husband Keith R. Sadler and retired State Trooper Anthony E. Suber would do the same as Senator Franken did. Be bless and be safe my warriors.

Thank you,

Rosaura Torres Thomas
Author
"Abuse Hidden Behind The Badge"

Author Rosaura Speaks to America About Domestic Violence.: "NOTHING HAS CHANGED"

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PHILADELPHIA, PA NEW DISTRICT ATTORNEY LARRY KRASNER

We have a new District Attorney Mr. Larry Krasner, many Survivors of Police Officer Involved Domestic Violence here in Philadelphia, PA and YES myself voted for Mr. Krasner.

We believe now that our cries will be heard! My cries went on deaf ears but it does not matter anymore, what matters is that you will not ignore the cries of so many SURVIVORS. Congrats Mr. Krasner as our new Philadelphia, PA District Attorney and many blessings to you always.

Thank you again!!!

Rosaura Torres Thomas

Author

"Abuse Hidden Behind The Badge

RESPECT THE MARRIAGE

Through my first marriage I went through so much unhappiness. I tried with every part of my soul to be accepted by Keith's family.

God I helped his grandmother Margie who made it very clear to me that my race (Puerto Rican's) were the low lives of all low lives; I cleaned up her shit, yes I said it shit.

Keith nor his mother Mercedes were no where to be found. I dropped everything to go help his grandmother. I did this for the love I have in my heart. Now here I am in a second marriage and all I ask is for respect. To all my family and friends, when you take a wife or a husband, they come first then your family. It does not mean you do not love your siblings, it means your wife or husband come first.

By

Rosaura Torres Thomas

Author

"Abuse Hidden Behind The Badge"

MY SUPPORT FOR OTHERS

My thoughts for today. I shared this on my friends web news. Lip News.

I wanted to share my thoughts with all your followers in regards to Keith and many others. As I watched the news and read many posting, I asked myself, what if someone just asked Keith if he ever hit me? What response do you think he will give? My children asked me “Mom are you waiting for dad to say he was wrong?” Good lord no! Men like Keith will never admit to any abuse, any sort of Domestic Violence.

They would rather sit their and lie because they will do anything to uphold their IMAGE! No one wanted to believe me :(. My story has not ended because there are so many others who has seen what has happened to me and continues to happen to others. Our Justice System would rather protect the abusers because of the position they hold. All I can do, is thank you Becky.

Wishing you all a bless and wonderful day.

Thank you,

Rosaura T. Thomas - Author

"Abuse Hidden Behind The Badge"

I LIVE WITH THE DAMAGE

Many questioned if my allegations against Keith was a lie? For years I avoided the Blind Institute, here in Philadelphia, PA, afraid to be a target, afraid to walk with a Cain. I never travel alone but I wanted to help others. For two years I stood side by side with another survivor of Police Officer Involved Domestic Violence. Two years I listened watched how the Legal System in the courts of Philadelphia failed this young woman. I was amazed when the FOP attorney tried to have me removed from the court room. I was not their to testify, I was their to support my survivor. Imagine going in the courts- of Philadelphia and all you see are cops and sheriffs, who walk around like peacocks. 

If Mayor Gray did his homework just maybe he would not leave the mayor office in embarrassment. As for Keith, remember the words of my mother. “YOU CANNOT COVER THE SKY WITH YOUR HANDS, GOD SEE EVERYTHING.” Thank you again Becky. Be bless always.

As I shared my thoughts with my oldest son, I feel not hate for his father, my ex husband Keith Sadler or for that horrible retired State Trooper Anthony Suber, my reminder of the damage they caused my vision lives with me each day. Maybe just maybe they will hold themselves accountable but LOL...I am not holding my breath. 

Thank you Becky from LIP News, many attacked and called you out of your name, I know the feeling.  Many called us liars, evil, vindictive but have they ever or will ever realize the DAMAGE they caused.

OUR GREAT SPIRIT IS BRINGING THINGS TO THE LIGHT!

Warmly,

Rosaura Torres Thomas
Author
"Abuse Hidden Behind The Badge"

 http://lipnews.com/2017/10/breaking-news-before-the-new-mayor-fires-him/comment-page-1/#comment-55945

SPIRIT AIR LINES - LIES TO VICTIM TRYING TO LEAVE PUERTO RICO

My nephew Angel arrange two plane tickets for his mother, my sister Mary Lou and his daughter Victoria to leave Aguadilla, PR after the horrible Hurricane Maria hit our Island.  Yesterday evening my family waited patiently to hear the great news my sister was able to fly out.  

My nephew called, my cousin Gladys called and all the information that was informed to them was all LIES, freakin customer service went so far to tell them, my sister boarded the plane!

Well guess again, there are no planes leaving Aguadilla, PR!  Our media was not allowed to search and find the truth.  The cars are all damage from flood, God help me but my sister is trying to find someone who is willing to travel to San Juan, PR., so she can come home.

I have tried to contact Spirit Corporate Office and no luck....You are horrible people...You allow your customer service people to schedule air flight from Aguadilla Air Port, knowing good well the airport is closed.....I am beyond pissed.  My sister suffers from COPD!!!  I want some answers, not only for my family but for all families who were lied too!!

Rosaura Torres Thomas
Author - "Abuse Hidden Behind The Badge"

https://www.spirit.com/Default.aspx

PRAYERS FOR PUERTO RICO AND MEXICO

I COPIED THIS FROM my cousin Gladys Torres, my uncle her father; Ben Torres is in Puerto Rico, my sister Mary Lou Torres is there and we are unable to contact her. Please PRAY FOR ALL OF THEM IN PUERTO RICO.

"100% of Puerto Rico without power. The Emergency Management antenna and the NOAA NWS National Hurricane Center have collapsed. Some cell towers have fallen and many radio stations are off the air. If anyone knows of anyone who needs help they can call (787) 777-0940 WIPR Radio who are receiving emergency calls. People outside of Puerto Rico: we have to copy and post pertinent information that we find to make sure to help as best we can. Blessings." Just saw this posted on another page. I pray everybody gets the help they need sooner than later.

Hurricane Hotline for Puerto Rico, if you have family and want to check on them call this number (877)976-2400 Please share this post.

Thank you all!!

Rosaura Torres Thomas

Author of Abuse Hidden Behind The Badge.

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PARASITE

Please God, continue to give me the strength, to not allow the things I see and hear hurt me! How I wish I could ignore, your simple, parasite ass, do not think for a moment that my silence is because I am weak...I am just preparing for my next bought. I am putting on the gloves to help those who have suffered the INJUSTICE that has taken place in many SURVIVORS OF POLICE OFFICER INVOLVED DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.....Have a blessed and wonderful weekend.

Rosaura Torres Thomas
Author
"ABUSE HIDDEN BEHIND THE BADGE"

UNTRUTHFUL RELIGION

From time to time, I questioned untruthful religion.  Are they speaking the truth?  Do they mean well?  I am reaching out to my Muslim brothers and sisters, who are friends of mine on social media. Could you please tell me about this?http://www.thevaluecreators.org/our-vision-cznk

Be bless and be safe always,

Rosaura Torres Thomas - Author
"Abuse Hidden Behind The Badge"

"PEACE WITHIN"

If our Great Spirit were to asked me, "Daughter did you accomplish everything you wanted to accomplish, I would say yes father." Since I was a younger woman I wanted to write my story about the struggles of my family and how we overcome them. I wrote of my survival of Domestic Violence and how the love I feel within me allows me to be at peace for others...I know nothing is guaranteed in life but....I have accomplished my dream and because I did...It has allow me to speak and help others. Be bless always my family and friends.

Thank you always,

Rosaura Torres Thomas

"Abuse Hidden Behind The Badge"

"WE ARE FREE"

I want to share my thoughts and prayers to my friend, daughter, and warrior Zulema!!! Through the years of your struggle with the courts of Philadelphia, PA and how your past abuser continued to abuse his power because he is a Philadelphia Police Officer; over and over again, You stood your ground; you never gave up...When I think of you and your family it brings me nothing but pride and so much happiness. Mi hija be happy because our Great Spirit will continue to guide you and protect you and your family always...I must say this, I hope your past abuser realize what a amazing, dynamic, strong beautiful and blessed woman you are!!! Love you for life.

AWARD WINNING Author - Rosaura Torres 

"ABUSE HIDDEN BEHIND THE BADGE"

THE WRONG MAN FOR PRESIDENT

I BEG ALL OF YOU TO WATCH THIS REPORT BY RACHEL MADDOW, MSNBC NEWS!!...THOSE WHO VOTED FOR THAT CHUMP TRUMP ARE TRULY LOST, THIS CLOWN HAS PUT EACH AND EVERYONE OF US IN DANGER!!! HE SOLD HIS SOUL AND EACH AND EVERYONE OF US WILL PAY THE PRICE FOR HIS CROOKED ASS. IF THE LATE PRESIDENT NIXON WAS REMOVED SO WILL THIS HORRIBLE PRESIDENT CHUMP BE REMOVED!!!

Rosaura Torres - Author

"Abuse Hidden Behind The Badge"

TO ALL MY SURVIVORS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND POLICE OFFICER INVOLVED DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

TO ALL MY SURVIVORS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND POLICE OFFICER INVOLVED DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

For some time now many of us have been watching the political show against Mr. Trump and Secretary of State Hilary Clinton. 

As a survivor I watched and listened and no matter how many of us may feel about Mrs. Clinton and those idiotic emails it, will never change the fact that Mr. Trump is a narcissus, misogynistic, abusive, bigot, disrespectful lowlife piece of nothing.

I must use my common sense and I pray that each and every one of you will do the same.  Imagine what it would be like if he is our President!!  For years we have been fighting for justice, for the right of all people.  As an activist against DV AND OIDV, I am for all people both women and men!

My love and good wishes go out to all my sisters and brother’s survivors. 

May the Great Spirit protect all of you.

Rosaura Torres Author

“Abuse Hidden Behind The Badge”